Parties are pretty important. Future business partners, romantic prospects, and new friends can potentially show up at nearly any given time to one of these. However, not everyone out there is the most confident party-goer, and upping your party game can level the playing field when navigating the party scenes. Thankfully, we’ve got you covered in mastering the art of conversations and connections to get you effortlessly mingling through the night.
1. Have a mission
Unless you’re the biggest extrovert who ever lived, chances are you are not going to know a lot of people or connections. Instead of freaking out, single out why you must go – assuming you want to go; we don’t recommend forcing yourself. Is it to relax? Good food or wine, a new business connection, or even romance? It can help bolster your mindset in advance, as it gives you something to focus on other than all these people you don’t know.
Plus, know what you want to do before you enter the venue. You can also ask your friends or the host to help brainstorm topics in advance. It not only gives you a head start but allows you to size up who is worth your hitlist for the night.
2. Dress the part
Of course, the dress code should be followed, but honestly, things that help you tap into the best you – are an infallible talisman. Rather than shopping around for a new outfit, go for something tried and true. It’s not so much about looking the best – but feeling the best, so if you have a jacket, necklace, or pants that always seem to work for you – go for it.
3. What are you bringing?
Etiquette dictates showing up with something, but that isn’t always the case nowadays. You don’t need to show up with something for your good friends, so you can take the weight off by bringing something you’re comfortable with. Maybe a bottle of wine, or